Mistress Jolie is someone who likes to give people what is due to them. For this guy, what was due to him was pain and punishment. That is why she had to ensure that he suffered. The mistress forced the guy to undress before she trampled and she kicked him while he was down. She only let him get up after she felt that the pain he felt was enough.
When this mistress needed to dominate her ex, she did it with her charm as she knew him and what he liked. She used his weakness to get him where she wanted and then she teased and denied him. But that was not all as she also facesat him and she choked him as well. He had never seen that side of him and he was shocked and humiliated at what she did.
This mistress needed to send a cruel message and she did it as she humiliated the poor guy. He had no choice but to do what she wanted him to do and that is why she had him lick her boots and other humiliating things. She farted on him and he had to smell her farts as well. He had no choice but to do it as he knew that if he did not do it, he would be punished cruelly.